agregar datos que vienen de un socket a un jtable

Échale una revisada rápida al tutorial oficial de Oracle, creo que te falta agregar por ahí un   para manipular los datos de tu tabla.

diculpa compañero no tendras por ahi un ejemplo que tu hayas implementado ya que la web que mencionas no le entnedi muy bien del todo

El siguiente código compila y funciona, muestra una tabla con datos, usando un JTable, lo tomé del link que te pasó neko069
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//package components;

/*
* SimpleTableDemo.java requires no other files.
*/

import javax.swing.JFrame;
import javax.swing.JPanel;
import javax.swing.JScrollPane;
import javax.swing.JTable;
import java.awt.Dimension;
import java.awt.GridLayout;
import java.awt.event.MouseAdapter;
import java.awt.event.MouseEvent;

public class SimpleTableDemo extends JPanel {
private boolean DEBUG = false;

public SimpleTableDemo() {
super(new GridLayout(1,0));

String[] columnNames = {"First Name",
"Last Name",
"Sport",
"# of Years",
"Vegetarian"};

Object[][] data = {
{"Kathy", "Smith",
"Snowboarding", new Integer(5), new Boolean(false)},
{"John", "Doe",
"Rowing", new Integer(3), new Boolean(true)},
{"Sue", "Black",
"Knitting", new Integer(2), new Boolean(false)},
{"Jane", "White",
"Speed reading", new Integer(20), new Boolean(true)},
{"Joe", "Brown",
"Pool", new Integer(10), new Boolean(false)}
};

final JTable table = new JTable(data, columnNames);
table.setPreferredScrollableViewportSize(new Dimension(500, 70));
table.setFillsViewportHeight(true);

if (DEBUG) {
table.addMouseListener(new MouseAdapter() {
public void mouseClicked(MouseEvent e) {
printDebugData(table);
}
});
}

//Create the scroll pane and add the table to it.
JScrollPane scrollPane = new JScrollPane(table);

//Add the scroll pane to this panel.
add(scrollPane);
}

private void printDebugData(JTable table) {
int numRows = table.getRowCount();
int numCols = table.getColumnCount();
javax.swing.table.TableModel model = table.getModel();

System.out.println("Value of data: ");
for (int i=0; i < numRows; i++) {
System.out.print(" row " + i + ":");
for (int j=0; j < numCols; j++) {
System.out.print(" " + model.getValueAt(i, j));
}
System.out.println();
}
System.out.println("--------------------------");
}

/**
* Create the GUI and show it. For thread safety,
* this method should be invoked from the
* event-dispatching thread.
*/
private static void createAndShowGUI() {
//Create and set up the window.
JFrame frame = new JFrame("SimpleTableDemo");
frame.setDefaultCloseOperation(JFrame.EXIT_ON_CLOSE);

//Create and set up the content pane.
SimpleTableDemo newContentPane = new SimpleTableDemo();
newContentPane.setOpaque(true); //content panes must be opaque
frame.setContentPane(newContentPane);

//Display the window.
frame.pack();
frame.setVisible(true);
}

public static void main(String[] args) {
//Schedule a job for the event-dispatching thread:
//creating and showing this application's GUI.
javax.swing.SwingUtilities.invokeLater(new Runnable() {
public void run() {
createAndShowGUI();
}
});
}
}

Acá te dejo un ejemplo, lo tomé del link que te pasó neko069, sólo tienes que poner como comentario el package

//package components;

Salu2

ok gracias por los codigos los revisare